
“What is required is that we unite with others, in order that all may complement and aid one another through holding together.” ~The I Ching or Book of Changes
I recently returned from vacationing with my family on Ocracoke Island, the home of the infamous pirate, Blackbeard. We had one stormy day of weather and one stormy afternoon of family conflict. Aside from this we had a warm and relaxing commune with nature and each other. It was just what we needed. My son and I have a contentious relationship that is filled with great love. We are fighters. My wife is a warrior in nature, but where we are blunt in our fighting styles, she is graceful. Together we form a team that maintains a dynamic balancing act that respectfully ranges from stormy to calm and everything in between. When the demands of everyday life are removed and it is just our three personalities and the island, the integrity of our relationships become more visible.